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Aug. 22nd, 2024 03:09 pmunderrated natural life skills i am enormously thankful for: the tone/Look of 'do not take my eternal chill/niceness for being a doormat; you are perilously close to that stage. shape up or else.' and the instant 180 of responses to that ...
so incredibly useful for lighting fires under asses + asserting boundaries without ever being actually mean
(me being a Tiny Ass Chick, i have to pull this out occasionally for new people both in work and elsewhere but thankfully they get the memo the first time. probably helps said velvet threats actually have weight behind them every time and i am perhaps a little too unafraid of authority lol).
so incredibly useful for lighting fires under asses + asserting boundaries without ever being actually mean
(me being a Tiny Ass Chick, i have to pull this out occasionally for new people both in work and elsewhere but thankfully they get the memo the first time. probably helps said velvet threats actually have weight behind them every time and i am perhaps a little too unafraid of authority lol).